In the last batch of episodes for Season 4 of the Netflix dating reality series, the pair decided to call it quits before embarking on a wedding. Glaze — who tended to emphasize his sensitive, “nice guy” persona on the show by often using therapy-related words and phrases — explained to Variety in an interview published Friday that the couple broke up because Bonds was not as emotionally mature as he was.
“She very much put that she can’t give me what I need as far as the emotional availability or rise to my emotional maturity,” Glaze told the outlet. “Not that she doesn’t have that within her, but it just kind of paled in comparison. And that’s okay. Not everybody has the same level of emotional maturity as we’re talking about.”
“Love Is Blind” is a reality show where 15 men and 15 women date one another in “pods,” or small rooms, separated by a wall. Participants can talk to each other but cannot see one another unless they decide to get engaged. If a couple gets engaged, they finally get the chance to meet face-to-face before getting married a few weeks later.
Bonds did show signs of not being physically attracted to Glaze upon meeting him, and cameras captured several emotional outbursts that seemed to sabotage their relationship. Viewers also saw her also agreeing to date Josh Demas, another participant she met in the pods, before officially breaking it off with Glaze.
When Glaze returns to the apartment, Bonds is packing her clothes. Bonds says she is not interested in playing games, and the pair engage in an explosive disagreement about Glaze choosing to leave instead of addressing his feelings. “I never said you weren’t man enough for me, I just said to be more aggressive,” Bonds says. “We don’t have sex, bro!”
The two finally call it quits in Episode 10, with Bonds admitting to Glaze that she has feelings for Demas. After Glaze leaves angrily, Bonds admits to the cameras: “I don’t even know if I’m gonna be with Josh. I don’t know if I’m gonna be with anybody … I need to probably do some self-work.”
“I’ve heard that I’m soft my entire life,” he told Variety. “And that’s okay. It took me a long time to get to the point of acceptance. I made a birthday video for myself, and I just speak to acceptance, that’s my 27th year is just acceptance, I accept myself for exactly who I am. I’m unapologetic about my sensitivity, my emotions, and the fact that I wear my heart on my sleeve. I love myself, and I put myself out there. And that’s all that I could ever truly ask or hope for out of anybody: just to put it all out there.”
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